We may want love so much, however, our actions and behaviors will show something different and push love away all together. We can even become frustrated by what we do, and not truly understand why we are doing it, or where it is coming from. Christina was a hopeless romantic, always dreaming of a fairy … More Are You Sabotaging Love?
To assume what other people are thinking or feeling without asking them is to invite misunderstanding. Just as disastrous is to assume other people know what we want or need without our telling them. Many potentially good friendships and marriages perish because of our false assumptions and our lack of honest communication. Do we assume … More Do You Invite Misunderstandings?
Have you ever seen a drowning man (or someone who can’t swim) flailing his arms trying to stay above water, totally out of control doing anything to survive? This is what it is like for someone who loses control when they are used to feeling like they are in control of their life. Control is … More The Illusion Of Control
Being happy is not genetic; it is a state of mind. Abraham Lincoln said, “Most people are as happy as they make up their mind to be.” With that being said, it is evident that many of us have a hard time deciding to be happy and actually staying in that happy place. Some of … More 7 Must Do’s to Be Happy Every Day
Relationships are not easy, in fact sometimes they can be a lot of work. If you are being hurt by your partner’s actions, there is still love in the midst of it. When you stop caring and become indifferent, that is when the relationship or marriage is heading towards trouble. Our partner came in … More 5 Requirements for a Happy Relationship
We have this false self, or “Ego” as some call it, dwelling inside of us. It is that voice that tells us to give up, that we can’t accomplish something, that we don’t deserve to be successful, or that we are fat. We all have one; it is the voice that keeps us from reaching … More 4 Steps to Tame the Ego/False Self and The Lies It Tells Us
Stress is a natural occurrence in life. … More 5 Healthy Stress Relievers